Relationship
- Presently married, even if you are not living together
- Divorced or separated, whether or not living together
- Living together in an intimate relationship with the abuser at the time of the abuse
- Living together and related by blood or affinity
- You and the abuser lived together at some time in the past year, and were in an intimate
relationship or are related by blood or affinity
- You and the abuser are parents of the same minor child
Abuse and present threat of harm
You must show that an assault, as defined in the Iowa Code, has occurred. Assault means ONE of the following must have happened:
- Someone physically abused you; Or
- Someone pointed a gun at you or displayed a dangerous weapon toward you in a threatening manner; Or
- Someone threatened you with physical contact which would cause pain or injury; And
- The threat put you in fear; And
- The threat could be carried out immediately
Residence
You or the abuser must live in Iowa. You must file for your petition in the courthouse located in the county where either you or the abuser is living.
If you meet these requirements, you qualify to obtain a Pro Se Protection Order. When the petition is filed, a temporary order will be granted by the judge, which will go into effect once the defendant is served with the papers. When the temporary order is signed, a hearing will be set to determine if a permanent order should be put into effect. A permanent order usually lasts one year. Both the plaintiff and the defendant have the option of obtaining attorneys.
What can a Pro Se Protection Order do for me?
- The judge can order the defendant to:
- Stop domestic abuse
- Stay away from your home/the family home
- Stay away from your work or school
- Not contact you personally or through another person, whether by telephone, writing, or any other way
- Give you possession of the family home or provide other housing
- Give you custody of the children, with appropriate visitation for the defendant
- Give you financial support
- Other
Victims do not have to go through this process alone. Advocates are available to assist them and provide support. For more information on Pro Se Protection Orders, please call FCC.